I’m with my friend pretty much exactly a year together. It runs great (apart from those small problems). However, recently I randomly heard that he repeatedly has logged into chat pages with webcam sex. When I talked to him on it, he could not explain why he visit such sites. on our beginning of our relationship he told me that he is not a cheater, and stuff like that he never would make in the life. I believed him… and I know that he would not go afield. and this sex chat for him are not a cheat. but he repeated visit the sexchats and for me this is like a cheat. or do I see this wrong? Finally, he looks at the girls and says do that and do this… to caress here, because the finger stick there, etc… When I think of it, I could freak out… we’re both very happy with our sex life and he also always tells me how great I am… but then why he visit such pages? I have asked him if i am not enough for him… He asserts me that he loves me and is satisfied with us and our relationship is great. now he lying at me… If I will referring him to it, whether he’s still doing it, then he says no. I know it and for this evidence. I hardly dare to ask him because we had a mega conflict because of relationship control looks. I can understand that he wants no control, but how should I believe him or trust if he ever lied me in the face??? and now it goes on… why he does not admit it? Why does he do it at all?? are all men like this? do they need this?? maybe is this normal at all and I reacted to exaggerated??? Please help me… tell me your objective view, as you see it…

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